What this site is:
This site was created in response to those who claim that “Everyone uses porn,” and to those who want to make you feel isolated and weird because you’re uncomfortable with pornography use. Often, the primary goal of pro-porners is to convince you that you’re uncool or you “hate sex” because you don’t like porn – as if you’re the one with the problem. As a result, far too many people – especially women – live their lives believing they’re the “only ones” who dislike porn, and dislike their partners using it.
We at NoPornPledge know that simply isn’t true. There are actually thousands, if not millions of us. We just need to stand up and be counted. Our goal is to make you feel more comfortable about your discomfort with porn. As you can see by the number of people who have already signed the Pledge from all over the globe, you are hardly alone.
This site is a place for you to publicly declare your porn-free status. By adding your name to the list, you are affirming that:
• You will not use pornography in any format.
• You will not date, sleep with, or have a serious relationship with a known pornography user.
This site is intended only for people with their minds firmly made up. Signing is obviously voluntary. If you are a happy porn user with no plans to quit, you shouldn’t sign. If you are in a committed marriage with a porn user and have no plans to leave them, you shouldn’t sign. If you’re not yet sure whether pornography use is a good or bad thing, you shouldn’t sign. If you add fake names or sign up your buddies without their knowledge, well, you’re only making us look more numerous. And then we’ll delete you.
Finally, we know that people arrive at antiporn views through different routes. Some are former porn addicts who’ve destroyed their relationships with porn use. Others have been exploited, betrayed, or abused via someone else’s porn use. Some hate porn for religious reasons, others for feminist or political reasons. We don’t care how you got here, as long as you are willing to declare yourself one of us.
My mind is made up!
I’m ready to pledge.
A joint project of the AntiPorn Activist Network, Through The Flame.org, and one angry girl designs.